Question by Smith: Do you think I’m wrong for trying to relate to my readership?
A boyfriend recently came across blogs & “answers” on my yahoo stuff he didn’t like. Basically I was referencing an amalgamation of my own experiences, others, & a little fiction spin in order to relate to my advice readership. This particular one referenced a guy I USED to date, but my current bo accused me of this “answer” referencing another person he suspects I’ve cheated on him with. That’s the tone I got anyway when he asked. Oh, ps when we first started dating we spent both our work & personal time together. I almost always stayed the night or went home to a house of family members, or would go out with friends whom he knows. Gee I wonder when I’d have any f*ing time to cheat. Now I’m a little sour over the accusations even though that’s not what he said it was about. My a**. He’s going on a hunt to find anything to ruin this relationship I think. Plucking my creative straws out of jealousy or control & I don’t appreciate it one f*ing bit.
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Answer by treebird
I don’t think your issue has anything to do with “trying to relate to my readership”. I think you have a problem with your relationship with this guy. You sound angry and not at all loving toward him. I wonder why you are even with him at all? Trust is an important foundation for a successful relationship. Do you and he have any?
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Guys get jealous… period. All guys do it to some degree. Talk to him and try and calm him down, if he loves and trusts you he’ll soon forget it. You sound like your taking offense… don’t. The reason i say that is not cause i’m taking his side, its cause i know your going to have a short fuse when talking about the instance, you sound pissed like your ready for a fight. You two will bring it up, both be pissed and it will be blown way up probably ending in a break up. You’ll go on and tell all your friend how jealous he is… and he’ll go on and tell all his friends how you cheated on him. Be mature and work it out.
wow, well i can see how things make get a lil t out of control. he isn’t wrong for suspecting, only human. We all convince ourselves to trust one another. and if the suspicion arrives we want to know as soon as possible, whether it happened or didn’t. the though its in his head, n it will take allot of convincing to help him forget. sooooo get to work.